Everyone has a different perspective on life. No script indicates how we are supposed to live; however, our ancestors always guided us to become better people. Someone recently asked me if I have a “what if.” I quickly jumped to a conclusion and said no because I assumed this person was talking about a romantic relationship. Instead, it was a general question, and then I realized that I have a few what-ifs, but I also have a lot of “for sure.”
I always ask myself, “Who would I be if I was still living in the Dominican Republic? Would I have a professional career or a romantic partner? Would I be a nice or rude person? Would I have a dog or a child? Would I be living in my own house or in a rental apartment?” so many questions, and there is no way for me to know the answer because it is impossible for me to go back in time. That is the sad part about “what if” you will never know the answer of it.
One thing that I know for sure is that I will meet my life expectations. Nowadays, it is becoming popular not to have high expectations. Still, I do have expectations for myself and for my family. My ancestors gave up on many different things. They sacrificed themselves so I could have a better future, and a way for me to honor their sacrifices is to expect a lot from me and my family.
Life is full of surprises, and each of us has different expectations. For some, life is a journey of self-discovery; for others, it’s a pursuit of happiness. No matter your life expectations, having a clear vision and direction to achieve them is essential. There are three significant areas in my life where I expect to achieve certain degrees of success.
Career Expectations
Many aspire to a successful career that provides financial stability and a sense of purpose. However, the path to success can be challenging. It requires hard work, dedication, and a willingness to learn and adapt. Setting clear goals and creating a plan of action is essential to achieve my career expectations. I want to become a doctor and open a mental health clinic (Our Garden Clinic). For some people, this may seem like too much, a lot of studying, then the process of learning how to manage a company; for me, this is my expectation in life, and this is something that I must do to achieve happiness. I want you to understand that some people may see this as too hard on me, but I see it as my destination.
Relationship Expectations
Human beings are social animals, and we all crave Love and companionship. Whether finding the right partner or building solid relationships with family and friends, relationships are essential to life. Communicating effectively, respecting boundaries, and being empathetic toward others is crucial. Therefore, I also have high expectations in this area of my life. As I said in previous articles, I am selfish; sometimes, I am not a good person/ friend/ partner, and I think about myself before anyone else. But there is a paradox because I give my all to the people I love. I expect my partner, friends, and family to care for me, support me in my dreams, bring me back to reality if I ever lose track of who I am, and always help me grow into a better person.
Personal Growth Expectations
Personal growth is a lifelong journey that involves continuous learning and self-improvement. It’s about discovering your true potential and becoming the best version of yourself. To achieve your personal growth expectations, you must be open to change, embrace challenges, and step out of your comfort zone. It would help to surround yourself with positive and supportive people encouraging growth and development.
Something that I still do not have, but I would like to experience, is having a mentor. I am including this in this area because I want a life mentor. I live life on my own terms, but I would also like to admire someone and be able to mimic them in certain aspects. Do not get me wrong, I admire the specific characteristics of certain people. But I want to meet someone who is already doing what I want to do. Therefore, little by little, I am getting out of my comfort zone, and I know that I will find an excellent mentor.
But well…
Life expectations differ for everyone, and there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to achieving them. However, by setting clear goals, creating a plan of action, and being willing to learn and adapt, you can navigate your expectations and lead a fulfilling and meaningful life. Remember, life is a journey, not a destination, and the key to achieving your expectations is to enjoy the journey and embrace all its ups and downs. I still have a lot of work to do, but I take my time to admire where I was and where I am not, and there is nothing but to be grateful that I am right here living this moment.
Yes, I have a lot of expectations, and I will accomplish everything at my own pace. Nobody is waiting for me but my best future self.
Also, I want to hear from you. Give me some life advice, and share your knowledge. Only if you wish.
With Love,
Denivez
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